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The Supervisor’s Legacy

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 23 Apr 2026 09:27:44 +0000

Most supervisors do not realize the scale of their influence. A single supervisor may train dozens of clinicians, and those clinicians may collectively treat thousands of clients across their careers. Supervision, therefore, shapes not only clinicians but the quality of care in entire communities. Supervision, then, is a form of cultural transmission. It is how professional culture is transmitted. Through supervision, clinicians learn how to respond to uncertainty, how to handle ethical dilemmas, and how to relate to clients with compassion. If supervision models curiosity, humility, and reflection, clinicians adopt those values. If supervision models fear and control, clinicians reproduce that environment. The Supervisor as a Developmental Guide Effective supervisors function less like inspectors and more like guides. They help clinicians tolerate uncertainty, regulate emotional reactions, and think critically about their work. Research shows that clinicians who receive high-quality supervision demonstrate greater confidence and lower burnout (Milne, 2009). Difficult Moments in Supervision Supervisors inevitably encounter challenging situations, including underperforming supervisees, ethical concerns, defensive reactions, and clinician burnout. Avoiding these conversations may feel easier, but avoiding them is unethical. SWEET Teaching Point: Avoiding difficult conversations is unethical supervision, and the 3C Framework can be used when addressing difficult issues. So, supervisors can rely on three principles. The first one is curiosity, which is to seek to understand before evaluating. The second C is compassion, which is to recognize the emotional complexity of clinical work. The third C is clarity, which is to communicate expectations honestly. A simple script might sound like this: “I care about your development and the people you serve. Let’s look at this situation together openly.” Final Reflection Ask yourself one final question: What kind of supervisor do you want to be remembered as? Years from now, clinicians will not remember your documentation reviews. They will remember how you challenged them, how you supported them, and how you helped them grow. Call to Action If you are committed to developing the next generation of clinicians, we invite you to join us. The SWEET Institute Virtual Conference on Clinical Supervision will take place on Friday, May 8, 2026, from 9-1pm EDT online via Zoom. Together, we will explore how supervision can move from: compliance → consciousness management → mentorship correction → transformation. To receive registration details: Contact the SWEET Institute, and remember supervision is not simply oversight. It is how the future of care is shaped. References Milne, Derek. Evidence-Based Clinical Supervision: Principles and Practice. Wiley-Blackwell, 2009. Watkins, C. Edward Jr. “The Supervisory Alliance: A Half Century of Theory, Practice, and Research.” Journal of Contemporary Psychotherapy, vol. 44, no. 3, 2014, pp. 151–160.

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The Supervisory Relationship: Why Safety Comes Before Learning

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 09 Apr 2026 09:09:38 +0000

Supervision is not simply a meeting. It is a relationship, and like all meaningful relationships, it carries psychological dynamics. Research shows that the quality of the supervisory relationship strongly predicts supervisee learning and satisfaction (Watkins, 2014). Yet many supervisors underestimate the emotional complexity of supervision. Supervision mirrors therapy, just as therapy involves transference, emotional reactions, and relational dynamics, so does supervision. Supervisees may experience fear of judgment, desire for approval, and reluctance to admit mistakes; and if supervisors ignore these dynamics, supervision becomes superficial. Psychological Safety Psychological safety is the belief that one can speak openly without fear of humiliation or punishment. In supervision, this means supervisees feel safe to say “I made a mistake; ”“I felt overwhelmed; ” and “I didn’t know what to do.” Research shows that psychological safety significantly improves learning outcomes in professional environments (Edmondson, 1999). Modeling Humility Supervisors who admit uncertainty foster trust. Statements such as “I’m not sure either, let’s think about it together.” This helps create an atmosphere of collaborative learning. Humility does not weaken authority. It strengthens credibility. Curiosity Over Judgment One of the most transformative supervisory skills is replacing judgment with curiosity. Instead of “Why did you do that?” Try “Walk me through what was happening for you.” Curiosity invites exploration, and judgment invites defensiveness. Reflection Think about a time when a supervisee made a mistake. How did you respond? Did the conversation promote growth or shame? Supervision should transform mistakes into learning opportunities. SWEET Call to Action The upcoming SWEET Institute Virtual Conference on Clinical Supervision, on April 17, 2026, will explore how supervisors can cultivate psychologically safe learning environments. Topics include relational dynamics in supervision, managing difficult conversations, fostering reflective practice, and strengthening supervisory leadership. If you supervise clinicians or lead clinical teams, this conversation is essential. Contact the SWEET Institute for registration details; and remember the supervisory relationship is where clinicians either grow or withdraw. References Edmondson, Amy C. “Psychological Safety and Learning Behavior in Work Teams.” Administrative Science Quarterly, vol. 44, no. 2, 1999, pp. 350–383. Watkins, C. Edward, Jr. The Supervisory Alliance: A Half Century of Theory, Practice, and Research in Critical Perspective. American Journal of Psychotherapy, vol. 68, no. 1, 2014, pp. 19–55.

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The Four Layers of Clinical Supervision

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 02 Apr 2026 02:02:10 +0000

Most supervision occurs at only one level: Technique. “How did the session go?” “What intervention did you use?” Yes, these are important questions, but they are incomplete ones, for clinical work operates on multiple psychological layers. At the SWEET Institute, we use a Four-Layer Model of Transformation to guide supervision. Layer 1 is the conscious Layer: This is the visible layer of clinical work. It includes interventions, treatment planning, and documentation. It also includes diagnosis, risk assessment, and while this layer is essential, if supervision stays here, it becomes shallow, for clinical effectiveness requires deeper exploration. Layer 2 is the preconscious layer. It includes thoughts and reactions that are not immediately obvious but can be brought into awareness. Examples include assumptions about clients, subtle biases, expectations about therapy outcomes, and beliefs about “good” or “difficult” clients. Supervisors help clinicians notice these patterns through reflective questioning. Layer 3: is the unconscious layer. This layer involves deeper emotional drivers. Psychodynamic research emphasizes that clinicians bring their own history, attachment patterns, and emotional vulnerabilities into the therapeutic relationship (Gabbard, 2014). Supervision ought to address countertransference, emotional triggers, identification with clients, and avoidance patterns. When these dynamics remain unexamined, they influence clinical decisions. Layer 4 is the existential layer. It is the deepest layer and it concerns meaning. Why did the clinician enter this profession? What sustains them when the work becomes difficult? Research on burnout suggests that loss of meaning is a major contributor to professional exhaustion (Maslach & Leiter, 2016). The SWEET Insight is as follows: burnout is often a crisis of meaning, not simply workload. As such, supervisors who explore this layer help clinicians reconnect with purpose. Case Example A clinician reports frustration with a “non-compliant” client. At the conscious layer, supervision might focus on treatment strategies. However, deeper supervision asks: What expectations does the clinician have about client progress? What emotional reaction is the client triggering? What personal experiences might be activated here? And what meaning does the clinician attach to helping others? Across the four layers, the supervisor helps the clinician move from reactivity to reflection. The Role of Self-Awareness Research across psychotherapy modalities consistently demonstrates that therapist self-awareness is one of the strongest predictors of therapeutic effectiveness (Norcross & Wampold, 2018). Supervision is therefore not simply about technique. It is about cultivating self-aware clinicians. Reflection Exercise Consider a supervisee who recently frustrated you. Ask yourself: What was your emotional reaction? What assumptions were present? Which layer of the model was activated? Remember: Supervision is also a mirror for supervisors. SWEET Call to Action On Friday, April 17, 2026, the SWEET Institute will host a virtual conference exploring advanced supervision practices. Click HERE to Register Participants will learn how to supervise across multiple psychological layers, address countertransference in supervision, strengthen reflective clinical thinking, and reconnect clinicians with meaning in their work. Click HERE to register and remember: supervision ought not to stop at technique. It ought to cultivate depth, awareness, and purpose. References Gabbard, Glen O. Psychodynamic Psychiatry in Clinical Practice. Maslach, Christina, and Michael P. Leiter. Burnout. Norcross, John C., and Bruce E. Wampold. Evidence-Based Therapy Relationships.

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From Compliance to Consciousness: Rethinking the Purpose of Supervision

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 26 Mar 2026 09:38:50 +0000

Most supervision meetings sound like this: “How many clients did you see this week?” “Did you complete the note?” “Make sure the treatment plan is updated.” Of course, documentation matters, compliance matters, and risk management matters. However, if supervision stops there, something essential is missing, for none of these develop a clinician. The Hidden Crisis in Clinical Supervision Across mental health settings, supervisors are often promoted because they are excellent clinicians; yet clinical excellence does not automatically translate into supervisory excellence. Research indicates that many supervisors receive minimal training in supervision itself (Bernard & Goodyear, 2019). As a result, supervision frequently becomes administrative oversight, documentation review, and crisis troubleshooting. What is then lost is the deeper developmental function of supervision. The Developmental Role of Supervision Effective supervision supports clinician growth across stages of professional development. Early-career clinicians often struggle with anxiety about competence, emotional overwhelm, rigid adherence to technique, and difficulty managing complex client dynamics Without supportive supervision, these struggles may lead to burnout, defensive practice, and disengagement from the profession. Developmental supervision models emphasize that clinicians require different types of support at different stages of training (Stoltenberg & McNeill, 2010). Supervisors ought to therefore move beyond checking tasks and instead support confidence, reflective thinking, and professional identity formation. The SWEET Perspective At the SWEET Institute, we often say supervision ought to develop the clinician, and not just monitor the work. This requires supervisors to cultivate three core supervisory capacities. The first one is presence. This is where supervisees are highly sensitive to their supervisor’s emotional state. If the supervisor is anxious or rushed, supervisees become defensive. If the supervisor is grounded and curious, supervisees become reflective. Neuroscience research shows that emotional regulation is contagious through interpersonal neurobiology and co-regulation processes (Siegel, 2012). The second core capacity is curiosity, and supervision thrives on curiosity. Instead of asking, “Why did you do that?” the supervisor can ask, “Help me understand what was happening for you in that moment.” Curiosity invites reflection, and judgment shuts it down. The third cord capacity is humility. Supervisors who acknowledge uncertainty create psychological safety, and psychological safety has been shown to significantly increase learning and innovation in teams (Edmondson, 1999). Supervisees ought to feel safe to say: “I don’t know what to do;” “I made a mistake;” “I felt overwhelmed in that session.” Without safety, supervision becomes performance rather than learning. The Cost of Poor Supervision When supervision is reduced to compliance, several things happen. Clinicians hide mistakes, avoid difficult conversations, disengage emotionally, and lose confidence. Eventually, then, burnout follows. Research shows that supervision quality is strongly associated with clinician retention and job satisfaction (Knudsen et al., 2008). Supervision is therefore not only a clinical responsibility. It is also a workforce sustainability strategy. Reflection Ask yourself: Have you ever felt unprepared as a supervisor? Have you ever left supervision wishing you had asked a better question? Most supervisors have, and that is precisely why this conversation matters. SWEET Call to Action On Friday, April 17, 2026, the SWEET Institute will host a virtual conference exploring the future of clinical supervision. Click HERE to Register Together, we will examine the psychology of supervision, how to cultivate reflective supervision, how supervisors influence clinician development, and how to build psychologically safe supervisory relationships. If you supervise clinicians, this conference is for you. Click HERE to Register Remember, supervision is not to simply ensure compliance. It ought to cultivate conscious clinicians. References Bernard, J., & Goodyear, R. (2019). Fundamentals of Clinical Supervision. Edmondson, A. (1999). Psychological safety and learning behavior in work teams. Administrative Science Quarterly. Knudsen, H., et al. (2008). Clinical supervision and counselor job satisfaction. Journal of Substance Abuse Treatment. Siegel, D. (2012). The Developing Mind. Stoltenberg, C., & McNeill, B. (2010). IDM Supervision Model.

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Supervision as a Sacred Responsibility

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 19 Mar 2026 09:43:03 +0000

Why the Future of Care Depends on How We Train Clinicians “Every supervisee you shape will touch hundreds of lives. Supervision is not oversight. It is legacy.” Clinical supervision is one of the most powerful yet underexamined forces in mental health. It determines how clinicians think, how they handle ethical dilemmas, and how they regulate emotions under pressure. It also determines how they treat the people who come to them in moments of profound vulnerability. Yet many supervisors receive little or no formal training in supervision itself. Research consistently shows that supervision quality strongly influences clinician competence, job satisfaction, and client outcomes (Bernard & Goodyear, 2019; Falender & Shafranske, 2017). Despite this, supervision in many settings still revolves around documentation review, compliance monitoring, productivity expectations, and risk management. Now, are these things important? Yes. Are they transformational? Rarely. This means this type of supervision leaves things incomplete. The True Purpose of Clinical Supervision Clinical supervision is not primarily about monitoring work. It is about shaping clinicians. The most effective supervision develops three core capacities. Clinical Identity, which is the type of supervision that helps clinicians understand their role, their limits, and their influence on clients. Clinical identity formation is a central developmental task in the early career years (Skovholt & Rønnestad, 2003). Without guidance, clinicians may drift between overconfidence, chronic self-doubt, and rigid technique-driven practice. Supervision provides the mirror necessary for professional self-awareness. Ethical Maturity, reminding us that ethics is not simply about rules; rather, it is relational. Supervisors help clinicians explore questions like, What responsibility do I carry toward this client? What happens when systems conflict with ethics? And how do I recognize blind spots in my decisions? Ethical development in clinicians occurs largely through reflective dialogue with supervisors rather than through textbooks alone (Falender & Shafranske, 2017). Reflective Capacity, which is perhaps the most important capacity supervision develops. It is the ability to think about one’s own thinking. It is often called reflective practice. Reflective clinicians are able to examine emotional reactions, biases, assumptions about clients, and patterns in therapeutic relationships. Reflective practice has been shown to improve clinical effectiveness and reduce burnout (Schön, 1983; Epstein & Hundert, 2002). SWEET Insight: A clinician’s effectiveness is limited by their level of self-awareness. As such, supervision shapes the field, and every supervisor is participating in something much larger than a meeting or a checklist. They are shaping the next generation of mental health professionals. Let us consider this: a supervisor may train 30 clinicians across a career, and those clinicians may each treat 500–1,000 clients. The ripple effect is enormous. Supervision is how the field reproduces itself. When supervision becomes mechanical, the profession becomes mechanical; while when supervision becomes reflective, the profession becomes humane. Reflection Exercise Take a moment to think about the best supervisor you ever had. Ask yourself: what did they do that shaped you most? What did they help you see about yourself? And how did they influence the way you work today? Most clinicians remember supervisors not for their corrections, but for their presence, curiosity, and belief in their growth. A Conversation Worth Having On Friday, April 17, the SWEET Institute will host a virtual conference dedicated entirely to clinical supervision. Together we will explore: How supervision shapes clinical identity How to move from compliance-based supervision to reflective supervision How supervisors can transform the culture of clinical teams How supervision can reduce burnout and strengthen clinical confidence The SWEET Institute is prioritizing this because if we transform supervision, we transform the future of care. SWEET Call to Action If you supervise clinicians, or expect to in the future, this conversation is essential. Join us for the upcoming SWEET Institute Virtual Conference on Clinical Supervision. Date: Friday, April 17, 2026 Time: 9-1pm EDT Format: Virtual Audience: Supervisors, program leaders, clinical directors, and experienced clinicians To receive registration information and conference details: Email the SWEET Institute Or, Click HERE for the upcoming events page Remember, supervision is not simply management; it is how the field evolves. References Bernard, Janine M., and Rodney K. Goodyear. Fundamentals of Clinical Supervision. 6th ed., Pearson, 2019. Epstein, Ronald M., and Edward M. Hundert. “Defining and Assessing Professional Competence.” JAMA, vol. 287, no. 2, 2002, pp. 226–235. Falender, Carol A., and Edward P. Shafranske. Clinical Supervision: A Competency-Based Approach. American Psychological Association, 2017. Schön, Donald A. The Reflective Practitioner. Basic Books, 1983. Skovholt, Thomas, and Michael Rønnestad. “Struggles of the Novice Counselor and Therapist.” Journal of Career Development, vol. 30, no. 1, 2003, pp. 45–58.

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The Algorithm and Identity Formation: Who Shapes the Self in a Digital World?

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 12 Mar 2026 09:46:29 +0000

A teenager opens an app. Within seconds, the feed fills with images, opinions, trends, and lifestyles. They witness ideals, beauty standards, success stories, and outrage. There was also perfection, but none of it was random, and all of it was selected. It was not selected by the user, but by the algorithm, and slowly, quietly, identity begins to form in dialogue with what is repeatedly seen. Identity Is Socially Shaped Identity does not develop in isolation. It forms through reflection, relationships, culture, and feedback (Erikson, 1968). Young people especially ask: Who am I? Where do I belong? How do others see me? Historically, these questions were shaped by family, community, and culture. Now, they are increasingly shaped by digital environments. The Algorithm as a Psychological Filter Algorithms prioritize content that maximizes engagement. This often includes: Emotionally charged material Idealized appearances Extreme viewpoints Social comparison triggers Over time, repeated exposure influences beliefs about: Normalcy Success Beauty Status Lifestyle expectations This is not just media exposure. It is identity conditioning. The Mere Exposure Effect Psychological research shows that repeated exposure increases perceived truth and preference (Zajonc, 1968). If clients repeatedly see one type of body, lifestyle, or belief system, it can begin to feel like the standard, and not logically, but emotionally. Adolescents and Neuroplasticity Adolescence is a period of heightened neuroplasticity and identity exploration. Peer influence strongly affects self-concept (Blakemore & Mills, 2014). When “peers” include influencers and curated personas, identity comparison expands beyond realistic boundaries. This can contribute to: Identity confusion Perfectionism Self-doubt Fear of missing out The Feedback Loop Algorithms learn from user behavior. Users learn from algorithmic output. A loop forms: Click → Content → Reinforcement → More of the same. Over time, this loop can narrow perception and shape aspirations. A Clinical Perspective The issue is not removing technology. It is increasing awareness. Questions clinicians can explore: What content do you consume most? How does it make you feel about yourself? Do you feel pressure to match what you see? These open doors to identity conversations. A Gentle Reflection If identity develops partly through what we repeatedly see, then digital environments matter, and not as enemies, but as influences; and influences can be navigated consciously. SWEET Call to Action Join the SWEET Institute’s March 13, 2026, conference: Scrolling Mindfully: Understanding the Impact of Social Media on Mental Health Learn how algorithms influence identity, how to assess digital environments in therapy, and how to use the SWEET Method and Four Layers of Transformation in clinical work. Registration is now open. Scientific References Blakemore, Sarah-Jayne, and Kathryn L. Mills. “Is Adolescence a Sensitive Period for Sociocultural Processing?” Annual Review of Psychology, vol. 65, 2014, pp. 187–207. Erikson, Erik H. Identity: Youth and Crisis. W. W. Norton & Company, 1968. Zajonc, Robert B. “Attitudinal Effects of Mere Exposure.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 9, no. 2, 1968, pp. 1–27.

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Digital Shame: How Social Media Reactivates Old Wounds

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 05 Mar 2026 04:20:14 +0000

A client scrolls quietly at night. They pause on a photo. Someone their age. Someone successful. Someone glowing. A thought appears: “I should be further along.” Then another: “What am I doing wrong?” Within minutes, their mood shifts, and not because anything happened in their real life — but because something was activated inside. It was not envy, or weakness. Often, it was shame. Shame: The Most Social Emotion Shame is not just feeling bad about a behavior. It is feeling bad about the self. “I did something bad” is guilt. “I am bad” is shame. Research shows shame is deeply tied to social belonging and perceived evaluation (Tangney & Dearing, 2002). From an evolutionary standpoint, shame signals possible social exclusion — a threat the human brain takes seriously. Why Social Media Is a Perfect Trigger for Shame Social media environments contain three ingredients known to activate shame: Comparison — curated lives become measuring sticks. Visibility — people feel seen, but selectively. Evaluation — metrics imply judgment. Research links social media use with body dissatisfaction and self-critical thinking (Fardouly & Vartanian, 2016). The Old Wounds Beneath the Scroll Social media rarely creates shame. It reveals where shame already lives. Digital environments can reactivate: Childhood criticism Emotional neglect Bullying histories Experiences of exclusion Family comparison dynamics The Neuroscience of Social Pain Social rejection activates neural pathways similar to physical pain (Eisenberger et al., 2003). To the brain, social threat is real threat. Shame Thrives in Silence Clients rarely say, “social media makes me feel ashamed.” They say: “It drains me” “I feel off after scrolling” Shame hides beneath vague distress. From Shame to Self-Compassion Self-compassion reduces shame and increases resilience (Neff, 2011). A Gentle Reflection If a platform constantly shows people their “not-enoughness,” it is not surprising that old wounds resurface. Awareness gives choice, and choice restores agency. SWEET Call to Action Join the SWEET Institute’s March 13, 2026, conference: Scrolling Mindfully: Understanding the Impact of Social Media on Mental Health Learn how to recognize digital shame, apply the SWEET Method, and use the Four Layers of Transformation in clinical work. Registration is now open. Scientific References Eisenberger, N. I., Lieberman, M. D., & Williams, K. D. (2003). Does rejection hurt? Science. Fardouly, J., & Vartanian, L. R. (2016). Social media and body image concerns. Current Opinion in Psychology. Neff, K. (2011). Self-compassion. William Morrow. Tangney, J. P., & Dearing, R. L. (2002). Shame and guilt. Guilford Press.

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Validation in the Age of Likes: When Self-Worth Becomes Quantified

Mardoche Sidor, MD and Karen Dubin, PhD, LCSW — Thu, 26 Feb 2026 00:14:13 +0000

A client posts a photo. They tell themselves it’s just for fun. Just to share. Just to express themselves. But then they check. Once. Twice. Ten times. “How many likes?” “Who viewed it?” “Why didn’t they respond?” Their mood shifts based on numbers. Their self-talk follows the data. And quietly, almost invisibly, self-worth becomes quantified. The Human Need to Be Seen The need for validation is not pathological. It is human. From infancy, our brains are wired to seek attunement. Eye contact, mirroring, and responsive caregiving shape neural development and emotional regulation (Schore, 2001). To be seen is to feel real. To be acknowledged is to feel safe. Social media did not create this need — it digitized it. When Validation Becomes Measurable In the past, validation was relational and nuanced. Today, it is often numerical. Likes. Views. Followers. Shares. Research shows that social media feedback activates reward circuitry in the brain, particularly the ventral striatum (Sherman et al., 2016). For some clients, this creates a loop: Post → Anticipate → Check → React → Repeat. The Subtle Shift: From Expression to Evaluation Many clients begin using social media for connection. Over time, it can become performance. Instead of: “I want to share.” It becomes: “How will this be received?” Studies link higher social media investment with contingent self-esteem, where self-worth depends on external approval (Burrow & Rainone, 2017). The Emotional Cost of Quantified Approval When validation is inconsistent or absent, clients may experience: Self-doubt Rumination Social anxiety Shame Heavy feedback-seeking is associated with depressive symptoms when self-worth is externally anchored (Nesi & Prinstein, 2015). Adolescents and Emerging Adults Adolescents show increased neural sensitivity to peer evaluation (Somerville, 2013). When approval becomes quantified, the psychological stakes rise. A Clinical Reframe The issue is not stopping social media use. The questions are: What role does validation play in this person’s history? When did approval become linked to safety? What does being unseen represent emotionally? Validation vs. Worth Validation is relational, and worth is intrinsic. The clinical task is to help clients build internal anchors alongside external connection. SWEET Call to Action Join the SWEET Institute’s March 13, 2026, virtual conference: Scrolling Mindfully: Understanding the Impact of Social Media on Mental Health Learn practical clinical tools, neuroscience insights, and the SWEET Method in action. Registration is now open. Scientific References Burrow, Anthony L., and Nicolette Rainone. “How Many Likes Did I Get? Purpose Moderates Links Between Positive Social Media Feedback and Self-Esteem.” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, vol. 69, 2017, pp. 232–236. Nesi, Jacqueline, and Mitchell J. Prinstein. “Using Social Media for Social Comparison and Feedback-Seeking: Gender and Popularity Moderate Associations with Depressive Symptoms.” Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, vol. 43, no. 8, 2015, pp. 1427–1438. Schore, Allan N. “Effects of Secure Attachment Relationship on Right Brain Development, Affect Regulation, and Infant Mental Health.” Infant Mental Health Journal, vol. 22, no. 1–2, 2001, pp. 7–66. Sherman, Lauren E., et al. “The Power of the Like in Adolescence: Effects of Peer Influence on Neural and Behavioral Responses to Social Media.” Psychological Science, vol. 27, no. 7, 2016, pp. 1027–1035. Somerville, Leah H. “The Teenage Brain: Sensitivity to Social Evaluation.” Current Directions in Psychological Science, vol. 22, no. 2, 2013, pp. 121–127.

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