“His relationships are all distant, online, and one time, one of his online girlfriends visited him, but then broke up with
“Let’s take care of the urgent issues, problem solve, and then take some time to better understand Joel,” responded Evelyn, who helped Janet come up with the next steps and addressed the urgent issues. Evelyn then added, “Now, let us talk about the nature of Joel’s situation.” And so, they did.
Regardless of your orientation or viewpoint for using an eclectic method and approach to treatment, there is power in understanding the coping mechanisms of your patients and clients. Using the discussion between Evelyn and Janet about Joel, let us review together a neglected yet powerful tool that we all need to possess, at all times, to help us better understand our patients and clients. Let us start with an overview of defense mechanisms.
At a time when Neurology and Psychiatry were considered inseparable, Sigmund Freud, a neurologist, made the
Defense mechanisms are unconscious strategies we use to protect ourselves from the anxiety that come from painful experiences, which may be associated with some unwanted thoughts and feelings. As I often say,
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the first step in knowledge is the ability to name things,
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the second step is the ability to define, and
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the third step is the ability to categorize.
When we consider defense mechanisms, there are several ways to categorize them. However, as a way to apply a simple approach, a safe categorization is mature and immature defense mechanisms. This is an oversimplification, but it is also a great start to at least think about the concept of defense mechanisms, as you wear your psychodynamically informed hat.
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Freud, A. (1937). The Ego and the Mechanisms of Defence, London: Hogarth Press and Institute of Psycho-Analysis. (Revised edition: 1966 (US), 1968 (UK)).
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Paulhus, D.L., Fridhandler B., and Hayes S. (1997). Psychological defense: Contemporary theory and research. In Briggs, Stephen; Hogan, Robert Goode; Johnson, John W. (1997). Handbook of personality psychology. Boston: Academic Press. pp. 543–579.
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Cramer, P. (1991). The Development of Defense Mechanisms: Theory, Research, and Assessment. New York, Springer-Verlag.
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Hock, Roger R. “Reading 30: You’re Getting Defensive Again!” Forty Studies That Changed Psychology. 7th ed. Upper Saddle River: Pearson Education, 2013. 233–38.
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Kernberg O (July 1967). “Borderline personality organization”. J Am Psychoanal Assoc15 (3): 641–85.
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Vaillant, George E. (1977). Adaptation to life. Boston: Little, Brown.