Trauma and Consciousness

If we experience symptoms of trauma reactivity, it, at times, may lead to Shame. Shame, in turn, may interfere with our ability to seek or accept help or to come to terms with our experiences. Shame is to be dealt with if we are to heal from trauma. For this, let us take a closer look into understanding Shame:

Those with Shame, particularly Shame associated with trauma, tend to have a view of Self, characterized by the following:

1. Despising

2. Contempt for Self

3. Self-repugnance

4. Detest of Self

5. Self-hate

6. Self-loathing.

7. Self-abhorrence

They also view life as miserable; their predominant emotional state is characterized by humiliation, and they tend to react to every situation through such a state. Lastly, their life mechanism is predominantly one of elimination, either of themselves or of others.  Those with Shame, therefore, do what it takes to run away from life, including from relationships with themselves or others.

As you can see, while you do have to do a thorough screening to uncover Shame in your patients with trauma, once uncovered, it is not so easy to deal with. But, the more you know how to recognize the subtle signs, the better. Here is a list of what to be paying attention to:

1. Death proximation

2. Possible suicide attempt with high risk for completed suicide

3. Failure to take steps to prolong life

4. Death by avoidable accident

5. Wish to be invisible

6. Early life experiences are remembered as the reasons for Shame

7. Destruction of emotional and psychological health

8. Proneness to hallucinations of an accusatory nature

9. Proneness to paranoia, or other forms of psychosis

10. Low self-esteem

11. Proneness to physical and mental health conditions

12. Shame-based personality: Shy, withdrawn, and introverted

13. Dangerous behaviors

14. Compensatory perfection and rigidity

15. Driven and intolerant

16. Vulnerability to other negative emotions (False Pride; Anger; Guilt)

Seek to address Guilt before addressing the trauma. Otherwise, the patient may unconsciously prefer to take the sick role simply because of Guilt.  Guilt is meaning-based and goes away with a change of meaning. Helping your patients using the CBT techniques of meaning remaking can be a powerful way to serve them. The following points also come along with Guilt:

1. Variety of expressions

2. Remorse

3. Self-recrimination

4. Masochism

5. Victimhood

6. Unconsciousness

7. Psychosomatic disease

8. Accident proneness

9. Suicidal behaviors

10. Escape

11. Denial

12. Preoccupations with wrongdoing

13. Associated emotions, including rage

What if we experience Apathy? Apathy is a sense of hopelessness and helplessness, both of which compound the symptoms of trauma. Patients may not be unwilling to try due to the belief that it is not worth it; it is not going to work out; and that nothing is going to work out.

• Those with Apathy and trauma condemn themselves. They have a view of themselves as being condemned or sentenced.  They, therefore, view life as being hopeless. They see everything through the lens of despair, which is also their predominant emotional state. As such, they are more likely to give up on life, not knowing they are the only ones condemning themselves.

As you may suspect, despair is unconscious, and the following may help us identify and address it, so we can then help our patients heal from their trauma, once and for all. Below is a list of the manifestations of despair:

1. Poverty

2. Despair

3. Hopelessness

4. Bleak looking future

5. Pathos

6. Helplessness

7. Victimhood

8. Neediness

9. Resourcelessness

10. Passive suicide

11. Lack of will to live

12. Blank stare

13. Unresponsiveness

14. Low energy

15. Isolation

16. Dependence

17. Heaviness

18. Burden

There is Shame, there is Guilt, there is Apathy, and there are also many additional levels of Consciousness. However, the above three can be the most severe to treat, and subsequent articles on the other levels will follow.

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Karen and Mardoche